Out of
the Box Communication Tools:
The Art of Public Speaking, Active Listening and Conflict Ma
In today's
24/7, "do more with less" constantly upgrading world, it's critical for message sent to be
massage received
and then acted upon by well-coordinated and creative problem-solving teams.
The capacity for interpersonal engagement -- whether with an audience or an antagonist -- is
critical for success in a variety of professional settings:
a) Public Speaking -
dynamic and effective speaking, meetings presentation or workshop leading that captures a group's
attention, stimulates and channels energy and generates team synergy while integrating HUMOR and
FUN!
b) Active Listening/Empathic Responding - purposeful and productive problem-solving,
strategically empathic interviewing/interacting and creative brainstorming for mutually opening
minds and designing new frameworks, possibilities and plans,
c) Mastering Conflict -
genuine sharing by creating a safe, participatory not power-driven, climate, defusing dysfunctional
power struggles -- whether between supervisors and subordinates or between group peers -- and
transforming both destructive aggression and conflict into healthy confrontation and win-win
consensus.
Objectives
How can you integrate the diverse communication concepts
and skills of public speaking, active listening and conflict mastery into your professional and
personal roles and relationships? Have no fear...Mark Gorkin, LICSW, "The Stress
Doc" (TM) and AOL's "Online Psychohumorist" (TM), is here. With three decades
of experience as a professional speaker, psychotherapist and organizational consultant and trainer,
"The Doc" will design and deliver your "Out of the Box" Tool Set. This kit
will enable you to engage effectively and creatively this threefold communication arena with
emotional empathy and interpersonal savvy.
Through dynamic presentation, spirited group
discussion, creative interactive exercises and HUMOR this "Out of the Box" program will
strengthen skillsets and strategic mindsets for enhancing confidence and performance in the realms
of Public Speaking, Active Listening-Questioning and Conflict Mastery.
Outline
Out of
the Box Communication Tools:
The Art of Public Speaking, Active Listening and Conflict Mastery
I. Public Speaking
A.
Engaging Your Audience: Thinking Out of the Coffin
B. The Stress Doc's CASES Method and 4
Faces of Anger Model
C. Using Humor and Wit to Open Up and Win Over Minds
II.
Empathic Interpersonal Interaction
A. Obstacles to Understanding
B. Techniques for
Active Listening and Empathic Questioning
C. CPRS Approach to Effective and Empathic Exchange
III.
Mastering Conflict
A. Power Struggle Exercise: Learning to "Drop the
Rope"
B. Assertive "I" vs. Blaming "You" Messages
C. Managing
Criticism and IDEAL Confrontation through Role Play
Outcomes
Participants will
learn:
1. Techniques for quickly engaging an audience, no matter the size,
2. The Stress
Doc's CASES methods for structuring a presentation,
3. The Four Faces of Anger Model for
transforming "Hostility" and "Rage" into "Assertion" and
"Passion,"
4. The CPRS Approach for Active Listening-Questioning and Empathic
Responding Skills including distinguishing between assertive "I" and blaming
"You" messages,
5. Four "C"-ing obstacles and tools -- Control &
Competition and Consciousness & Cultural Diversity -- for being dragged into or defusing
dysfunctional power struggles,
6. How to engage and resolve real life problems through
safe, interactive group exercises that transfer to relevant settings,
7. Why we are
hyperreactive to criticism, how to handle "constructive criticism" while providing useful
and useable feedback and
8. How to integrate healing vs. hostile humor into a variety of
work-social settings and exchanges.
Seek The Higher Power of Stress Doc Humor: "May
the Farce Be with You!"
Don't miss your appointment with "The Stress Doc."

Mark
Gorkin, LICSW, "The Stress Doc" , is an internationally recognized speaker and
syndicated writer on stress, anger management, reorganizational change, team building, public
speaking and HUMOR! His monthly newsletter was just featured by List-A-Day.com and his
writings are regulary published by HR.com, WorkforceOnline, Events Solutions, Financial Services
Journal Online, Professional Conference Management Association Newsletter-Capital Chapter, etc.
The Doc has been profiled in Biography Magazine and has appeared in a Workplace Violence
segment on CBS-TV News. He is America Online's "Online Psychohumorist" (Keyword:
Stress Doc) leading a weekly chat group for AOL/Digital City -- http://www.digitalcity.com/washington/stressdr
DC Stress Chat. Check out his USA Today
Online "HotSite" - www.stressdoc.com Stress Doc homepage. For
more info, email stressdoc@aol.com or call 301-946-0865 (in Wash, DC).