(July, 2000,
p. 207)
No matter what your source of
angst-a bitchy boss, a noncommittal boyfriend, overdue bills - these
superquick tricks will put a halt to dread-head.
Use a pal as your reality check.
Ask a bud whose judgment you trust to act as a stress sounding board
for 10 minutes every few days. Use this gripe session to air anxiety and
find out how to handle problems and worries, suggests Mark Gorkin, founder
of StressDoc.com and author of Practice Safe Stress (AdviceZone.com,
2000). Hearing her perspective will give you another view of the situation
and help you see that things aren't as unmanageable as you think.
Watch The Simpsons
Or another sure-to-make-you-snicker show. "Laughing gives your
body a brief but hardy internal workout that naturally infuses you with a
sense of well-being," says Gorkin.
Sweat It Out
Aerobic activity releases endorphins, our body's natural mood relaxers.
So if work is making you crazy, go for a brisk 30-minute stroll in the
park. Or if your mind is racing at night, zip around and clean your
apartment. As Gorkin points out, "Anything that ups your heart rate
will help."
Picture Peace
"Visualizing soothing scenarios induces a chemical change in our
bodies that calms us down," says Bill Crawford, Ph.D., a
Houston-based psychologist and author of All Stressed Up and Nowhere to Go
(Florence Publishing, 1996). So when you're wound up, imagine yourself on
the beach or snuggled up in bed and watch your worries float away.
Gina Zucker